02. You use “we” instead of “I”
We are in love.” “We’re pregnant.” Constantly referring to yourselves in the plural can come across as a little weird to others, but it takes a minimum of 2 people to be in a relationship, and psychology tells us that using “we” concretizes the fact that you and your partner now have each other’s backs in the relationship.
According to a study, couples who frequently used the pronouns “I” or “me” in conversations were observed to be in a distant and troubled relationship. On the other hand, using “we” and “us” has been linked to empathy and humility. Using plural pronouns gives reference to 2 people as a couple and not as separate people doing their own thing.
